Beginning a New Relationship - What Makes a Guy Fall in Love?
Facts on lust
Lust comes easy to a guy. It comes natural. A guy doesn't have to consciously to lust. It is something that just happens. The difference between a guy a girl is that a guy can have sex without getting attached to the girl at all. The opposite is true for girls. They get really attached to a guy after sex and may find it very frustrating if the guy does not feel the same way about her.
Facts on love
Love and lust are not the same things. Just because he lust after you does not mean that he loves you. There is a very big difference between the two and it's very important that you don't get them both confused. Love is more emotionally based then lust. Lust is very much physically based can be blamed a lot on ragging hormones. Love tends to last longer and have a deep impact. Lust tends to be more fleeting and generally leaves a guy unchanged.
Having sex to before an emotional connection is there will only strengthen his lust. That is a move that you don't want to make. You don't want the only thing going through his mind being the sight of you nude body. Instead you want him thinking about how much you make him laugh, how your personality sooths him and makes the world seem so much more peaceful. Sex can be used to cement your relationship and make it more intimate, but only when it is used in the proper context.
Facts on friendship
Don't underestimate the strength of friendship. You may be striving for a deeper more intimate relationship, but the relationships that last have a great friendship at their roots. Do not be so impatient for romance that you leave friendship behind. Not every moment in your relationship will be romantic, but you can always be friends. That is how you will get a guy to fall in love with you.