As a girl, it can be difficult to hold the power in a relationship, or at least that is what it appears.
It seems sometimes that men are completely different animals and work on different levels than we do and because of that we feel we have no power and no ability to keep a relationship healthy and intact.
If you have lost your guy, either because you dumped him or he dumped you, you can still find a way to get back your power and put yourself in charge of getting the relationship back on track.
1.
The real power of a woman, in any relationship, is sexual.
Girls know it and guys know it.
I am not one to advocate withholding sexual contact in order to get what you want, but by doing so, you know you can pique their interest.
If you want to get a guy back, then do not offer your "favors" early on.
Make him wait and keep him interested.
Reel him in! 2.
Nothing drives a guy crazier than a girl who doesn't pay attention to him.
Buying him a present or making him food may make him happy, but it won't bring him back to you.
Ignore him and appear as if you are perfectly happy without him.
It will absolutely drive him nuts! 3.
Don't talk trash! Guys don't like girls who gossip, and if you say bad things about him behind his back, he will never trust you again.
If people ask why you broke up, say something that is not incriminating - "Just a difference in opinion" - and let them figure it out.
He will respect you for that.
If you want to get a guy back, you have to do a little manipulating, but it can be done.
Just make sure he is actually worth it before you go to all of that effort!