I am sure we have all been there, where we cannot work out how to give a woman an orgasm.
We know that we put in enough foreplay and know all of her erogenous zones, but it just refuses to happen.
Women actually vary quite a lot in their susceptibility to some kinds of orgasm, but it all comes down to three basic factors: 1.
The kind of orgasm you are attempting to give her 2.
How susceptible she is to having that kind of orgasm 3.
How you try to give her the orgasm Neither of these is particularly difficult to understand, however they result in a lot of difference between women.
Some women find it easy to orgasm during intercourse, but rarely orgasm from erotic touching.
Some women also have different sensitivities for clitoris, G-spot and deep spot orgasms.
To make her orgasm more quickly, you actually need to increase the amount of time that foreplay takes by a couple of hours.
Sounds like a contradiction, right? Let me explain...
Making Foreplay Last Longer, the Fun Way Many couples make the mistake of thinking that foreplay starts in the bedroom: they almost have two personalities, a calm, collected one for the date and a frenzied, sexual one for the bedroom.
To reduce her orgasm time, the key is to start the foreplay a long time before you get home.
Make the whole date an exciting and sexual experience for her and you will find it easy to give her all the orgasms she wants.
Some tips for making your date more sexual: * Mix your vibe between gentlemanly and sexual, holding doors open for her, but not being afraid to be sexual in front of her * Simple fun things like touching her under the tablecloth or playing fun games like footsie can all add up to a huge difference * If she is wearing a long coat or short skirt, these give you a lot of opportunities for secret caresses.
The idea is to build up the tension, until you are literally almost ready to rip each others clothes off.
Once you have this level of excitement, the orgasms should happen quickly when you get home.
Variety is the Key to Your (Sex) Life Whoever said that variety was the key to life could have been talking about sex.
Her entire body functions as a massive erogenous zone, so have fun moving around during foreplay, touching her everywhere.
The only exception is as she is coming to orgasm, when consistency becomes the key! Reduce Foreplay Time With Technique The other element in reducing her orgasm time is having great technique.
Learning the correct places to touch her and orgasm techniques that work on all women then you can easily make her orgasm.
Once you are great at the 'big three' (Oral sex, touching and intercourse) you can easily give her an orgasm in 15 minutes or less.