Are you worried that you will not say the right thing? Perhaps you are thinking that there is not going to be a way for you to make that call or to contact that person.
You just would not know what to say.
If you take on this mentality, you are going to find yourself never getting anywhere when it comes to online dating.
Instead, use these tricks to help you get through the tougher times.
1.
At first, you are not talking to anyone other than someone that may turn out to be a friend.
You are just meeting new people.
Think about this as you are getting started in writing to the other person.
2.
Next, really think about what you are writing but ask things that are things that you are really interested in.
If they made note of taking several trips in the last few years, ask them where they went and what they enjoyed on those trips.
Find things that you really want to know about.
3.
To be positive and have your personality come through, add your own comments and thoughts in.
If they went hiking in an area that you did, simply comment about how when you went there, your favorite part was at xyz point.
4.
Compliments work magic on people.
You want to make sure that people feel good about themselves when talking to you.
You should say something like, "I thought your profile was really interesting.
You have a talent for writing!" Compliments always bring a smile as long as they are in good taste and kept to just a few.
5.
Remember, if this does not work out with them, there are plenty of others out there.
There is nothing on the line here.
The only thing that is at risk is your ability to go out and find someone for you.