You probably know how easy it is to get a guy to be physically attracted to you, and even take things to the bedroom after a mere few days.
But have you ever wondered why he never seems to stay in love with you for long? Nod if any of the following sounds familiar after you've gotten intimate with him: *He calls or gets in touch much less often than before *He doesn't set up as many dates as before *He always seems busy with work or other things *When you do set up a date with him, he never seems to be available or interested The worst part about this is that when he finally calls the relationship off because he's not ready to commit, you often find him hanging out with another woman soon after.
The nerve! When this happens, it's often very tempting to think that all men are just after the sex.
Actually, it's hardly like that.
When the relationship makes its way to the bedroom too soon, it means that it was based on an attraction that was purely physical - and physical attraction alone won't make a relationship last.
If you want to make the relationship last for the long-term, you'll need a different kind of bond between the two of you - one that's based on emotional attraction.
Physical attraction is always nice, but to stand the test of time, your personalities have to be in line with each other.
So how do you develop emotional attraction? Simple - don't take the relationship to the bedroom too soon.
Give the relationship some time to see if any natural "chemistry" continues to grow with every date.
It's very easy to get carried away by "new love," so be careful.
A hot, sexual relationship will never give way to a casual, deep relationship.
If you give him everything too early, he'll quickly get bored and unhappy when he realizes there's a limit to just how fun the relationship can be.
So what does he do? Exactly - he withdraws and tries to find other ways to enjoy life.
But the reverse isn't true - a relationship that starts out casually, growing in emotional attraction little by little, can graduate into a hot, sexual one in the future.
And if the emotional foundation is strong enough, he'll find there's no reason for him to look elsewhere because you're a very enjoyable person to be with.
If you tweak your personality a little and become a more positive, more independent woman, men will realize that being with you is a lot more fun than being with other women.
And when they get to know you better, it won't be long before they realize they want you all to themselves.