If you are having trouble getting your man to relax in your company and find that he is always tense and uptight, it could mean that you are doing the wrong things.
Don't be in denial and be ready to make the necessary changes in order to help him relax! Here are some terrific and sound ways of getting him to trust you and relax in your company.
Don't be in the habit of criticizing him Check back and see if you have been subtly or openly criticizing him in any way.
If your man is going to feel like an insect under a microscope, then he is obviously going to be tense in your company.
He will find it impossible to relax, wondering what you are going to find wrong in him! Accept his shortcomings The faster you accept him just the way he is - the faster he will learn to relax in your company.
If he even senses your disapproval or disappointment in him, he will be on edge and afraid that he is going to say or do something that will make the situation worse! Love him and accept his faults - he will adore your company when he can be himself.
Be welcoming and loving It is bad enough when a man feels that he is the cynosure of all eyes because of his insecurity and lack of confidence.
He does not want to feel the same way when he is with his woman! Be welcoming and loving.
Be considerate and sensitive to his moods, desires and needs.
This will help him to relax around you.
Ignore the faults and be forgiving The sooner you show him that his flaws don't bother you, he will find himself relaxing in your company.
If you can be forgiving and understanding he will want to spend more time with you.
Besides, you are not perfect yourself and if he loves you despite your flaws - you should do the same! Coax him into confiding in you Make him feel like you would stand by him no matter what! If he is confident of your feelings and love for him - he will tend to relax and enjoy himself more.
Encourage him to confide in you and share his feelings with you.
Let him be convinced of your support and he will not have any fears in future.
Give him the time he needs to relax with you Trust and confidence always takes time to develop and build.
There is no way he can completely relax in your company until he feel sure of your love and acceptance.
This will take time.
Do not push him or goad him into a relationship.
Be sensitive enough to get the timing right.
Be unassuming and don't judge Just because he is with you don't assume that you know it all! Coming to conclusions of your own, without making absolutely sure how he feels is dangerous and might end with loss and failure.
Don't judge him and he will not judge you.
This attitude will help him relax and trust you.