'If you want something bad enough, the universe would conspire for you to get it'.
Paulo Coelho did not make this statement out of the blue.
It is very much a fact of life.
When you go out into the world, you would crave for a compatible companion - someone who would understand you and be with you till the end of time.
But this is not as perfect as it sounds.
You cannot accept the first proposal which comes your way! So, the question remains 'How to get the guy you want?' Just follow the four essential tips which have been mentioned below and see the change for yourself! 1.
The very first thing you ought to do is figure out the things that he likes.
Is he more into sports or is he a music lover? However, remember to make indirect enquiries.
It should never reach him that you were enquiring about his interests.
Now that you have a list of his likes, chalk out what you have in common.
2.
Get someone to introduce you both.
Ask a common friend to introduce you both or just bump into him somewhere.
If you feel you are not up to any of this, go to the places he generally visits (of course, you would know them by now, if you know his likes and dislikes).
Just acquaint yourself with him and make yourself visible.
3.
Initiate a talk yourself.
Don't wait for him to make the first move- make it yourself.
Remember, it's you who is interested, not him.
Start a talk with him and call him occasionally.
Drop messages off and on.
Just develop a zone of comfort with him to try and understand his mental makeup.
4.
Last but not the least; make yourself unavailable for some time.
Don't ignore him- just avoid him.
Even if he is not interested, he will come after you to know the reason you are avoiding him.
It is during this time that he will realize that he actually misses you!