How to Seduce That Cute Girl in the Coffee Shop
Here's the scenario-I'm sure you find it familiar.
Day after day you go into your local Starbucks, Caffe Nero or Costa, and there she is, the hot girl of your dreams.
Be honest, you probably drink way more coffee there than you actually want, because she's there, day after day, till, inevitably, one day her new boyfriend walks in.
In the lingo of pick-up artists such women are called hired guns.
These are women you encounter at work where social interaction is part of their job description.
What you really want to do is get that girl out of the coffee shop and into your arms, but you never know how do you? Maybe you exchange a few words of conversation but you can tell she is always on auto-pilot.
Perhaps you just ask her out direct but she's busy that night, and every other...
The first thing you need to do is be sociable with the other bar staff, particularly the guys.
This may seem counter-intuitive, but consider how much stronger your impression will be on her when the first time she really notices you it is in the middle of a fun and/or interesting conversation with one of her colleagues.
She'll feel like she wants to be part of the interaction, and you are in a position of power and authority by allowing her in.
This avoids the scenario where, as the girl behind the counter in effective charge of the situation, you are subordinate to her.
In particular you need to establish who the alpha female and male are in the setting.
These are usually the senior staff there and often will have employed her.
It is vital you become friendly with these people, preferably before you even talk to her.
The second thing you need to do is get the girl off auto-pilot.
Play with her, challenge her, make her actually think.
The theory here is that most of her day goes by in a blur, you want to be the guy that stands out in her memory.
Order something ridiculous, get her to explain the exciting range of drinks on offer and make fun of her while she does it in a gentle way.
Accuse her of making you a poor beverage, then next time commend her for her improving, in this way you give out an air of command.
Never be serious about anything.
Touch is a very important technique all good pick-up artists use.
Make sure your hand brushes hers when she passes you her drink, only enough so that it could be accidental but she knows it probably isn't.
Maintain eye contact at all times.
You will find, unconsciously that you and she are really CLICKING.
You will find after a while that she will come and talk to you after these daily encounters and you can begin to actually talk about more important stuff, such as when she's free and wants to do something cool...
Day after day you go into your local Starbucks, Caffe Nero or Costa, and there she is, the hot girl of your dreams.
Be honest, you probably drink way more coffee there than you actually want, because she's there, day after day, till, inevitably, one day her new boyfriend walks in.
In the lingo of pick-up artists such women are called hired guns.
These are women you encounter at work where social interaction is part of their job description.
What you really want to do is get that girl out of the coffee shop and into your arms, but you never know how do you? Maybe you exchange a few words of conversation but you can tell she is always on auto-pilot.
Perhaps you just ask her out direct but she's busy that night, and every other...
The first thing you need to do is be sociable with the other bar staff, particularly the guys.
This may seem counter-intuitive, but consider how much stronger your impression will be on her when the first time she really notices you it is in the middle of a fun and/or interesting conversation with one of her colleagues.
She'll feel like she wants to be part of the interaction, and you are in a position of power and authority by allowing her in.
This avoids the scenario where, as the girl behind the counter in effective charge of the situation, you are subordinate to her.
In particular you need to establish who the alpha female and male are in the setting.
These are usually the senior staff there and often will have employed her.
It is vital you become friendly with these people, preferably before you even talk to her.
The second thing you need to do is get the girl off auto-pilot.
Play with her, challenge her, make her actually think.
The theory here is that most of her day goes by in a blur, you want to be the guy that stands out in her memory.
Order something ridiculous, get her to explain the exciting range of drinks on offer and make fun of her while she does it in a gentle way.
Accuse her of making you a poor beverage, then next time commend her for her improving, in this way you give out an air of command.
Never be serious about anything.
Touch is a very important technique all good pick-up artists use.
Make sure your hand brushes hers when she passes you her drink, only enough so that it could be accidental but she knows it probably isn't.
Maintain eye contact at all times.
You will find, unconsciously that you and she are really CLICKING.
You will find after a while that she will come and talk to you after these daily encounters and you can begin to actually talk about more important stuff, such as when she's free and wants to do something cool...
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