Fun First Date Conversations - Dating Advice For Men
Have you ever heard the old saying "less is more"? In this article, I'll give you a few fun first date conversations for you to try, but understand that its important that you listen more than you talk.
First of all, you must realize that body language is more important than what you say and how you say it.
Wherever you are, and whatever the situation, you MUST remember that your composure and body language are the keys.
I've watched many guys approach many women in my day.
And I can usually tell within seconds if the guy knows what he's doing with the girl he's having a fun conversation with.
Body language works in different ways, in different situations.
Most guys use submissive, apologetic body language and tone of voice.
They lean toward her as if they're pleading with a woman to give them approval, and that they're nervous and self conscious during the whole date.
This may work great in a job interview, but it doesn't make for fun first date conversations.
In other words, most guys come across as wussies when they talk to a woman during a first date.
On the other hand, the guys I know who are the most successful with women are the opposite.
They're cool, calm, and collected.
They often approach a woman and begin the conversation like they would with an old friend.
There is no apologetic body language (leaning in), and there are no signs of insecurity.
They aren't there to find out if the woman is going to give approval.
Instead they are trying to find out if the woman is up to THEIR standards.
Think about how you'd act if you were only interested in finding out if she's the kind of exceptional woman that you're interested in getting to know better, instead of being concerned about whether or not she's going to like you...
big shift isn't it? If you grab on to these tips and actually take action on them, you'll find that fun first date conversations and interactions are much easier than you thought because you are the one in control.
Don't misunderstand.
Traditional courtship suggests that the man leads the dance.
In other words, lead the conversation.
Lean back instead of leaning in and showing submissive body language.
Here's some homework for you: Sit down think about what's going on in their minds, where they're going, what they've come from.
Now, come up with 10 different ways that you turn this into fun first date conversations between the two of you.
Remember that YOU'RE the one who is trying to figure out if SHE is the kind of woman you'd like to get to know better.
Once you've come up with 10 good ones, pick your favorite, and mentally rehearse it.
Not just once.
Get it in your mind that the men lead, so rehearse it enough where you know what to talk about in almost any situation on a first date.
First of all, you must realize that body language is more important than what you say and how you say it.
Wherever you are, and whatever the situation, you MUST remember that your composure and body language are the keys.
I've watched many guys approach many women in my day.
And I can usually tell within seconds if the guy knows what he's doing with the girl he's having a fun conversation with.
Body language works in different ways, in different situations.
Most guys use submissive, apologetic body language and tone of voice.
They lean toward her as if they're pleading with a woman to give them approval, and that they're nervous and self conscious during the whole date.
This may work great in a job interview, but it doesn't make for fun first date conversations.
In other words, most guys come across as wussies when they talk to a woman during a first date.
On the other hand, the guys I know who are the most successful with women are the opposite.
They're cool, calm, and collected.
They often approach a woman and begin the conversation like they would with an old friend.
There is no apologetic body language (leaning in), and there are no signs of insecurity.
They aren't there to find out if the woman is going to give approval.
Instead they are trying to find out if the woman is up to THEIR standards.
Think about how you'd act if you were only interested in finding out if she's the kind of exceptional woman that you're interested in getting to know better, instead of being concerned about whether or not she's going to like you...
big shift isn't it? If you grab on to these tips and actually take action on them, you'll find that fun first date conversations and interactions are much easier than you thought because you are the one in control.
Don't misunderstand.
Traditional courtship suggests that the man leads the dance.
In other words, lead the conversation.
Lean back instead of leaning in and showing submissive body language.
Here's some homework for you: Sit down think about what's going on in their minds, where they're going, what they've come from.
Now, come up with 10 different ways that you turn this into fun first date conversations between the two of you.
Remember that YOU'RE the one who is trying to figure out if SHE is the kind of woman you'd like to get to know better.
Once you've come up with 10 good ones, pick your favorite, and mentally rehearse it.
Not just once.
Get it in your mind that the men lead, so rehearse it enough where you know what to talk about in almost any situation on a first date.
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