The worst thing about relationship advice for men is that you're having to look for it in the first place.
If there are any silver linings, it has to be that  the right advice applied to the right emotional circumstances can work like a magic spell.
You've recently separated from your ex girlfriend and want to win her back but you've got to make sure you don't let your heart rule your head in this break up situation.
There's a fine line between showing you still want her back and looking like a wet blanket.
One of the hardest things to do is resist telling her exactly what you feel until you know she wants to hear it.
You'll know when it's safe to tell her your true feelings without the risk of pushing her further away, but it's an emotional tug of war until you get to that stage.
When the temptation to declare your love overpowers you before she's ready she will be almost sure to reject you, but don't think that she will always feel like that.
There are so many things you can do which will make her think about you in ways that she might not have thought were going to be possible ever again.
Mastering the self restraint to tell her your true feelings until the time is right is an enormous shift in your mentality and will show you're serious about getting her back.
That's when you're ready to move onto the next chapter of relationship advice for men.
Until then, concentrate on keeping your cool, knowing that it's the first part of deliberately setting out to win her back.