A Hot Date With A Video Surveillance System
Dates and Data
Dating can be an exciting experience, and perhaps nothing has changed dating - or the world for that matter - more than the Internet. In this Information Age, chatting has brought a new twist to dating. Strangely enough, you can see someone even before a blind date! Moreover, video surveillance systems have been installed in more public places than ever before. After the 9-11 attacks, sales in video surveillance systems increased by 20 percent. Also, many police departments across the U.S. report that these systems can help to prevent break-ins and robberies by nearly 50 percent! These machines can help to give you peace of mind, whether you are headed out for a date at a mini-golf course, the go-cart track, or a local vegetarian joint.
A Date with Safety
While a video surveillance system in a public place can make dating safer, modern dating involves meeting complete strangers. This can be risky, so be smart and cautious when going on a first date. Here are some tips.
* Meet in a public place where other people are.
* Bring your mobile phone.
* Do not leave your drinks or personal items unattended to prevent theft. Actually, of more importance than preventing drinks being stolen is their being tampered with.
* Tell at least one family member or friend where are going, who you are meeting, and when you will be back.
* Go to the date and return from it alone.
* Stay sober and drink moderately.
* If you feel comfy about the first date, schedule another one!
Warning Signs
Unfortunately, even when precautions are taken, various types of dating violence can take place. These include sexual, physical, emotional, and economic abuse. Many signs show that a person could be an abuser. These include:
* Jealousy
* Threats of abuse or violence
* Being oversensitive
* Isolating people
* Impractical demands
* Playing the blame game
* Breaking things
* Justification of past abuses
* Controlling behavior
* Using force during quarrels
* Quick involvement in relationships
* Multiple personalities.
If you observe these signs of abusers, end the date immediately. While a video surveillance system can keep you safer, you should trust your own judgment.
Since the dawn of the Information Age, our social interaction has never been the same. The dating scene's landscape was forever changed as well, increasing new opportunities and risks. Luckily, a video surveillance system can help your pleasant date end with the words, "When can I see you again?"