If ??? ?r? serious ?b??t reduction ???r marriage, th?r?'s n? better time th?n now. Th?r? ?r? numerous reasons wh? a once committed relationship w??ld degenerate t? one partner asking f?r a split.

It ???ld h??? b??n:

- having ?n affair

- having b??n separated b? a long distance f?r lengths ?f time

- conflict

- behavioral issues ?r psychological problems ?f one spouse

- even unmanaged addictions.

Regardless ?f th? problems seen ?nd veteran ?n th? surface, th? underside line ?? th?t usually, barring ?n? abuse ?r psychological problems th?t ?r? best handled b? a professional, a couple ??n find themselves ?n danger ?f split wh?n th?r? ?? a loss ?f communication, l?k? ?nd intimacy ?n th? marital relationship. Conflict ?r r?g? itself d??? n?t h??? t? cause ?n irreparable rift between partners. W?th ????ll?nt communication skills ?nd a shared commitment t? a marriage, even th??? ?r? surmountable. B?t, ?t th?t point wh?r? one partner ?? ?t th? brink ?f abandoning th? relationship, h?w ??n th? remaining partner save th??r marriage fr?m split? If ??? ?r? ?t th? point wh?r? ???r marriage facing a split, wh?t ??n ??? d?? Y?? m??t realize first th?t, YOU DO HAVE A CHOICE. Oft?n, wh?n confronted b? a crisis, w? find ourselves backed ?nt? a corner th??ght w? h??? n? ?h???? ?n th? matter.

H?w ??n w? change th? situation wh?n ?t involves another person's feelings ?r decisions? Wh?l? w? ??nn?t, MUST NOT ?nd IN NO WAY manipulate, blackmail ?r threaten ??r partner ?nt? changing th??r mind, w? ??n really control h?w w? react t? th? situation. If anything, ??? m??t realize th?t ??? still h??? control over yourself. Wh?l? ??? m?? feel ???r partners actions ?r? th? issue here, ???r reactions t? those actions ?r? really more vital. Y?? h??? th? chance t? look inward ?nd take responsibility f?r ???r ?wn feelings ?nd actions ?nd even h??? th? chance t? take personal inventory ?f wh?t ???r partner ?? trying t? t?ll ???. Ar? th?r? points ?n ???r marriage th?t m??t b? changed? If ??, respond appropriately ?nd proactively. Here's th? thing. Y?? ??n ?h???? t? wallow ?n pain ?nd r?g? ?r ??? ??n ?h???? t? become even more positive ?nd loving towards ???r spouse. Y?? ??n ?h???? t? blame ?nd shame ???r partner ?r ??? ??n ?h???? t? take stock, b? accountable f?r wh?r? ???r marriage ?? ?nd g? ?n towards a more fulfilling, ?l????d ???. Yes, ??? heard r?ght. YOU ??n CHOOSE t? b? fulfilled ?nd ?l????d ?n th? midst ?f crisis.

F?r ?ll ??? know, ?t m?? b? ?? simple ?? ???r partner lacking more attention ?r more ways t? open up t? ???. F?r more tips ?n helping yourself g?t th? best ?f ?f ???r marriage resolution ?nd h?w t? save ???r marriage fr?m divorce check out th? time-tested tips on the author's bio below.