Marriage problems along with stress from everyday life will put a strain on a marriage.
There is only so much a marriage can take and as time goes on you feel like the two of you are growing apart.
At this point you begin to ask yourself these questions "Do I want to save my marriage", "Is it worth the effort to save my marriage"? This is up to you to decide, because only you know the answer to these questions.
However, it is important for you to know that if you save your marriage, you will save your family as well.
A divorce will lead to serious long term changes in your family.
Are you ready for these changes? 1.
Changes In Your Extended Family You probably grew close with your partner's family and friends during your marriage.
If you end your marriage these close ties with your partner's family will be broken.
If you believe the marriage troubles you go through do not effect the people around you, think again.
Saving your marriage will display to the people around you that you cherish their friendship.
2.
Changes In Your Kids Lives It is well known that a divorce will dramatically change your kids' lives.
Get used to scheduled visits because the two of you will no longer live together, and your child may not see one of their parents for weeks at a time.
This kind of change in a child's life will have critical effects on their emotional well being.
The worst part about this whole ordeal is that your kids may go through life feeling guilty and responsible for the divorce.
However, you can quickly reverse these changes by saving your marriage and showing your kinds that keeping the family together is your number one priority.