If you're a married unhappy couple, you won't stay that way for long, simply because you either sort things out or, sooner or later, you will break up.
  Which means you need to seriously do something now if you want the marriage to last.
  Here are the 3 things you can do that will have the most positive impact -- 1.
  Fact the problems head-on A lot of marital problems become un-manageable because little problems are left to "solve themselves".
  Whatever issues you and your husband or wife are facing, deal with them head-on.
  Don't wait, don't deny there's a problem.
  Nip each in the bud before they get out of control or explode.
2.
  Allocate "work on the marriage" time everyday    Making a marriage last requires hard work.
  You can't expect a plant to thrive if you don't water it everyday and trim and weed it occasionally, can you?  Similarly, a marriage needs attention everyday for it to strengthen and grow.
  Put aside time everyday to chat, do an activity or hobby together, have alone time or plan your next holiday.
  Just make sure you give it time everyday.
3.
  Get help No matter how small the issue might be, don't be afraid to get help to figure things out.
  Ask friends or family for advice.
  Get the view of your pastor or rabbi.
  Go do your own research through books or on the Internet.
  What's the recommended approach to solving the issues you face that's causing you to be a married unhappy couple?  Don't wait or you might end up losing him or her.