Marriage Trouble Signs - 3 Main Signs of Marriage Trouble to Note
Some may be obvious and point-blank visible, but others would need a keen eye or full analysis before someone realises something is wrong with a relationship.
Thus, you should take note of any all signs of trouble that appear before you.
Do take them seriously because they are a warning that something is wrong.
If left unresolved, problems tend to escalate into major issues that cannot be resolved, perhaps except by separation.
One of the more obvious signs of trouble is the lack of sex.
Human beings have the natural instinct to breed and when a man and a woman are brought together, the desire for sex is there.
It should not be thought of in the negative light like what scandalous news have been in the media.
Sex is part of the natural process of partnership and the lack of it could actually display a lack of intimacy, interest, trust, or others.
If a couple is able to make love on a regular basis (perhaps except once every ten years!) an unspeakable bond is formed from the activity and the couple would naturally become closer.
However, that bond is easier weakened when less and less time is spent together for any reasons they might have.
They could say that they have too much work, or they could say that their family needs them too, but in the end, not making love to each other for many months is still having a lack of sex.
When a marriage is having problems and the couple is not able to resolve it fast enough, the lack of attention for each other does not help.
In fact, it would worsen the relationship.
When two people are truly in love with each other and are wanting to be together, they would make use of any chances they have to show their intimacy and love for each other, even if it would last for just a moment.
Such a couple could playfully slap each other on bum when walking past.
One of them could suddenly hug the other out of the blue.
When walking together back home from work or a movie, their hands could entwine around each other without saying a word.
This type of couple would not find it the least embarrassing but instead find it all very pleasing.
If your relationship is lacking anything intimate or loving, then it is one of the possible signs of trouble.
Another is a change in manners.
Take for example when you speak to strangers.
You find yourself being as polite as you can and being polite all you can until you finally leave the presence of that stranger.
In a relationship, whether your loved one is polite to you or not depends on the closeness of your relationship.
A change in the level of politeness is a sign that your loved one has a change in attitude.
Sometimes, we take our lives for granted and after being in a relationship, you tend to just relax and let nature take its course without working on maintaining your relationship or improving it.
Over time, feelings for each other may weaken, and you might start becoming strangers to each other.
When your lover begins to speak to you like how your lover speaks to a stranger, something would be wrong.
Fortunately, noting these signs of trouble is a good thing in a way.
It is not desirable to see them because it means your relationship took a wrong direction somewhere, but seeing it first before a huge conflict occurs warns you to take action first so that you can prevent the conflict from occurring.
Do remember that your lover is a human being, and love and attention are some of the things needed to help your relationship grow.
Love can be grown emotionally and physically, so do make use of both to live a happier relationship.