Has your marriage been deteriorating lately? If you are trying to save your marriage from falling apart allow me to become direct for you: you cannot maintain a healthy marriage by performing endless self-sacrifice.
I was able to save my marriage when I understood and implemented this view.
You cannot solve your marital problems by speaking with your spouse and trying to settle everything through the use of compromises.
This might just work when you are in a relatively stable marriage even though there might be the occasional fight every now and then.
However, is hopeless to do so when your marriage is troubled and your spouse demands a divorce.
Let me explain through the use of my own situation.
My wife wanted to split up with me but I certainly did not want for that to happen.
Any time my wife brought up the problem that she was having with me I always tried to reach a compromise just to keep the marriage going.
I made it seem that I was only in the marriage for the sake of being married.
Of course, this did not work and it will definitely not work when your marriage is getting heading downhill.
What should you do? You need to play the game according to the rules that is set.
The whole begging routine is out of the question.
You simply cannot revive the way things used to be by just begging and in fact, you will only make things worse.
Just remember that people always try to get the things that they cannot have.
I was ever so grateful to have learned this piece of information as it provided me with the foundations for me to save my marriage.
As long as you understand this concept you will be well on your way to saving your marriage.