If you have been watching your marriage decline in recent months or maybe slowly over a period of years you are no doubt wondering what to do to make things right again.
It may also be true that your spouse has not seemed as interested in saving the marriage.
Perhaps he or she has even mentioned divorce or separation! When you are still in love and just not willing to give up hope, I assure you that regardless of how your spouse may be feeling right now, the marriage can be saved.
You can make a very positive start by doing the following: 1) Quit the blame game - Don't blame your spouse or yourself.
It accomplishes nothing regardless of whether it's accurate or not.
It will not repair a relationship.
About the only thing it does is fuel a divorce.
2) Take responsibility - Regardless of who you think caused the marriage to be where it is right now, be willing to do something about it.
Just like I mentioned earlier, even if your spouse is doing nothing, you can make changes that will impact the relationship.
3) Be willing to accept help - I am going to show you an action plan in a minute that works about 90% of the time! It can work for you too! I wish I had known about it a few years ago when I foolishly thought I could fix things on my own.
Boy was I wrong! 4) Take action - The best plans in the world will do you no good if you just leave them on the shelf.
The only thing between you and the marriage you want right now is your willingness to take powerful and positive action! Are you willing to do what it takes?