Today I am here to tell you that the fate of your marriage lies entirely in your hands.
If you do the right things, you can save your marriage from a divorce; regardless of how bad everything might seem right now.
I have done it, and doing the right things, there is no reason you shouldn't.
However, remember that this is a double edged sword.
If you are able to do the right things, it's all good; but if you do the wrong things instead, you might end up irrevocably damaging your marriage.
So it's vitally important that you tell the right things from the wrong ones.
The most common reaction against the possibility of a divorce is the "knee-jerk" reaction.
When facing divorce, you tend to search for the quick fix which will heal everything as quick as possible.
Unfortunately, this is not something that you can really achieve.
Whatever your marriage's problems (that led to the possibility of divorce) didn't just appear out of nowhere one day.
 They grew from certain roots over a certain period of time.
This means that there is nothing you can do to cure everything overnight.
Moreover, such a desperate "quick fix" search can do a lot of damage to your marriage, because it inevitably ends up in you begging your spouse - which is a big no-no.
To be able to stop your divorce, you need to first get rid of this knee-jerk reaction mindset.
 Stop looking for that quick fix, because there isn't one.
Quit being depressed and desperate to save your marriage.
You CAN do it, and you CAN save your marriage; but not by being devastated about it.
 What you need is to have a clearly considered plan; not desperate actions to fix everything quickly.