Has your marriage been deteriorating lately and would like to get it back on track? It is quite commendable if you are trying your best to find ways to save your marriage.
Too many people always look for the easy way out - simply ending the marriage without much dithering.
Many people just do not seem to be as selfless as they used to be.
Congrats on being one of the few people who make the sacrifices needed to maintain their marriage.
I personally have been in a situation like yours where I did all I can to save my marriage - and eventually did so in the end! Allow me to share what I have done to accomplish this.
Firstly, never at any time start with the crying and begging if your spouse decides that he or she wants to end the marriage.
If you have already done so, don't think twice about doing it again.
Try your hardest to maintain self discipline in this regard as it only comes off as being desperate.
You are more likely to make things worse than they already are.
I could tell my wife was fed up with me when I carried out that routine.
So all you need to do is simply do the opposite.
Don't open yourself to be vulnerable and beg continuously for forgiveness.
Instead, put yourself out as someone who is independent and hard to get.
The reason is that people always try to get the things they cannot have.
If you appear easy or weak no one would want to have you.
Keeping your marriage in one piece can take considerable care and commitment.
Never let the impulsive thoughts get to you.
Be a little "hard to pin down" to your spouse at times.
Heed my words - you cannot keep a stable marriage until you understand this and act accordingly.