If you want to get better at understanding men, then you'll be interested in this article.
The great thing about this article is that you won't have to be doing much in terms of behaving differently to try and get a man's attention.
In fact, what you'll be doing is the opposite.
In this article, I'll teach you how to be yourself and to be assertive in such a way that you'll be attracting men.
Though men tend to be split on the matter, more often than not, men are attracted to women who are more assertive.
Let's discuss why this is the case.
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Assertiveness Defined In case you're not too sure what the word actually means, I'm going to define assertiveness so that you have a better idea on how to incorporate it into your character.
Assertiveness is about being sure about yourself.
You accept yourself whole-heartedly and realize that what makes you different is what is attractive about you.
There are women who try to improve themselves, which isn't a bad thing.
Combined with assertiveness, this is when these women really shine.
This is because they are improving their positive traits only and ignoring people who are trying to drag them down.
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Two Sides Of The Coin There are women who insist that they're not good enough.
My sister for example is one of these women.
She always calls herself fat when she clearly is thin.
I hate that and no matter how much I try, her mindset on it won't budge.
She isn't assertive about her figure in a positive sense.
She puts herself down.
If she simply relaxed about her figure, she would give off more confident vibes.
This would make her more attractive and she would generally be a happier person.
So do you think that you're thin...
or slender? Are you fat...
or are you voluptuous? Negativity only exists if you think it exists.
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Why Men Like It Us guys are into assertiveness because it shows us that you're comfortable the way you are.
The last thing we want to do is be with a woman who is so unhappy with herself that she completely ignores us and spends time obsessing over how imperfect she is.
We want a woman who loves herself.
If she loves herself, she can love us.
A lot of married women fall into this trap of not loving themselves as their body change over the years.
Don't worry ladies, we love it all, but only as much as you love it.
Though this article hasn't really talked much about understanding men, hopefully you would have realized that it always comes back to you.
If you love yourself, we will love you more.
Stop focusing on us and focus on yourself to get more love and respect from us.