For some people, divorce is the end of the relationship between two couples.
This not really that true.
Divorce can be the end of the marriage but not entirely the whole relationship.
There are people who have separated and divorced and then got back together after years.
This can be a good chance for people who are still in love with their ex husband or wife.
Once we decide that we want to get back together with our ex, we need to have a good reason why.
It can be that after living apart, we have grown more in love with them and want to be with them due to the loneliness we feel.
It can also be that they are too special to just forget and look for another.
They can be unique that we cannot replace them however we try.
Then we have to recall about the old marriage.
Why did it fell apart? If there are reasons; which there are indeed, we have to ask ourselves if we could ever change that.
If we are willing to change, and be better with our ex's then that is a sign that we should get back together.
All that is important is the willingness to work it out if we both really deserve it.
After that, we can talk with our ex and tell him or her things we have in mind.
First, we need to ask if they feel the same way as we do.
If they tell us that they do feel the same way, then that is a good thing.
But if they say that they aren't sure about it, then we give them time to think about it.
We need to understand that all of the divorce process was difficult and it was way too hard to move on from it.
Once we decide to get back together, we may recall all of the pain we've gone through.
Taking it slow is the only way for us to think about the matter.
There is no point for hurrying, because the time that it's going to take will give us more opportunity to think more.
We have to make sure that we are not going to make mistakes again like we did the first time.
If we are really willing to do the reconciliation after divorce, we need to try and keep the communication.
This way, our feeling will get back to where it has been.
We probably need the communication after all due to having kids.
This is one good reason to keep things together.
It will be better for the children and for the whole family.
In case that our ex already is having a steady relationship with someone, then we have to accept it.
If they don't have yet, then we can have a bigger chance to fix the broken marriage.
When we are both mutual with the reconciling, the first thing we need to do is to inform our family and friends about it.
Usually, they may have other says about the issue, and may not agree at first.
But if you both know that you are able to change and be better couple, then there's no harm in going for it.
Who knows, this could be the chance to make the marriage perfect.
That is how we reconcile after the divorce.
it doesn't matter how many years you have been apart, just as long as you both decide to stay together again, then everything will be fine.