Understanding Men: The Secret Club
Understanding men can actually be fun.
I'm going to talk about a way that you can make it more fun for you and your man, even if you've been together for a long time.
This is something that one of my exes did to me a while back and I've actually used it since with my wife to have a bit of fun when I'm bored.
The best thing is, all you need is a mobile phone.
It doesn't involve "sexting" or anything dirty like that.
However, it does keep the two of you connected and will strengthen your bond.
1.
The Secret Club Did you ever do this when you were younger: text your friend when you were sitting right next to them on the train, simply because you didn't want people next to you hearing what you were talking about? I think this is something that people from Generation Y tended to do.
Anyway, there's a bit of subtle psychology that goes on behind this kind of interaction.
You feel almost like you're in an exclusive club for two.
You're having a silent conversation that nobody else can hear.
2.
The Connection I think that it works best when you're in the same room as the other person but you aren't with them or looking at them.
Ultimately, they aren't talking to anyone else but you and you feel connected to them through your texting conversation.
It's also that feeling of waiting and expectation that you get from waiting for someone to reply.
If you ever were into instant messaging, you would know about the feeling that I'm talking about.
3.
A Warning Don't do this all the time.
It only works when you do it once in a while.
I don't know, it seems rather simplistic, but doing it makes you feel as if you're dating again and it's essentially a mini-game of playing hard to get.
When you're waiting for the text, the person has to respond.
When you're writing the response, you have the power to make them feel a certain way.
Also, when you have this "text chat", it tends to be more fun and light-hearted, which is great to keep things interesting in a relationship.
See us men like to have fun as much as you do.
If you think that understanding men is difficult, hopefully this changes your perspective.
Whatever you like, we like too usually.
Don't hesitate to start a "text conversation" with us and start playing hard to get at any time during the day!
I'm going to talk about a way that you can make it more fun for you and your man, even if you've been together for a long time.
This is something that one of my exes did to me a while back and I've actually used it since with my wife to have a bit of fun when I'm bored.
The best thing is, all you need is a mobile phone.
It doesn't involve "sexting" or anything dirty like that.
However, it does keep the two of you connected and will strengthen your bond.
1.
The Secret Club Did you ever do this when you were younger: text your friend when you were sitting right next to them on the train, simply because you didn't want people next to you hearing what you were talking about? I think this is something that people from Generation Y tended to do.
Anyway, there's a bit of subtle psychology that goes on behind this kind of interaction.
You feel almost like you're in an exclusive club for two.
You're having a silent conversation that nobody else can hear.
2.
The Connection I think that it works best when you're in the same room as the other person but you aren't with them or looking at them.
Ultimately, they aren't talking to anyone else but you and you feel connected to them through your texting conversation.
It's also that feeling of waiting and expectation that you get from waiting for someone to reply.
If you ever were into instant messaging, you would know about the feeling that I'm talking about.
3.
A Warning Don't do this all the time.
It only works when you do it once in a while.
I don't know, it seems rather simplistic, but doing it makes you feel as if you're dating again and it's essentially a mini-game of playing hard to get.
When you're waiting for the text, the person has to respond.
When you're writing the response, you have the power to make them feel a certain way.
Also, when you have this "text chat", it tends to be more fun and light-hearted, which is great to keep things interesting in a relationship.
See us men like to have fun as much as you do.
If you think that understanding men is difficult, hopefully this changes your perspective.
Whatever you like, we like too usually.
Don't hesitate to start a "text conversation" with us and start playing hard to get at any time during the day!
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